In this episode, as he was growing up in the south, Larry had lots of questions around many things in life. Many of the answers he received from others were inadequate in his mind which led to a lot of confusion. The harder he tried to understand, the more questions he had and the answers were never satisfactory.
Life was a bit awkward as he was growing up. Having started school a year early, he was smaller than his peers, and a target for bullying. Eventually, he was able to internalize his own sense of self-worth in his musical abilities. He found his calling as a Band and Orchestra Director. It wasn’t until he hit his early 50’s, however, that he was able to make sense of a lot of things. He learned that it’s never too late to raise your awareness and consciousness.
Show Notes:
Listen in to hear Larry’s story, what he learned and how he applies it in his life today. There are many nuggets of wisdom to include:
1. What you feed grows
2. How to dispel anger and resentment
3. Making time to reflect
4. Egocentricity and transcendence – the Zen of it all
5. The dynamics of growth through relationships
6. The power of neutral observation – the downside of going from observation to analysis
7. Acceptance and patience
8. Spirit “Body-building” tips – moving from learning to practicing via discipline
9. Finding what works for you
10. Don’t ask “Why” – Ask “What is the opportunity for growth?” (Advice from Dr. Steven Hairfield)
11. Resist the urge to control others – a Lilliputian tale
Books he recommends:
Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself – Dr. Joe Dispenza
When Everything Changes, Change Everything by Neale Donald Walsch
Power vs. Force – Dr. David Hawkins
Gulliver’s Travels – by Jonathan Swift
People who’ve influenced his life:
More Info:
Larry was born in Jackson, MS as a post-war baby boomer and into a Christian household via Southern Baptist orthodoxy. Bullied through the early years, he finally found refuge when discovering his musical abilities. After receiving undergrad and graduate degrees in Music Education, Larry taught for 30 years as a high school band and orchestra director. He retired from teaching and worked in retail for a decade before fully retiring.
If you wish to contact Larry, feel free to reach out to Hearts Rise Up at Hello@HeartsRiseUp.com for details.
Music by Jonn Serrie
Website: http://www.thousandstar.com/
Record Labels and Links to Jonn’s Music: Valley Entertainment and New World Music
This was most informative and enjoyable!
Thanks for listening in Tony. We’re glad that you enjoyed it. We definitely enjoyed talking with Larry and having him share the wisdom gained from his life experiences.